"As we continue to hold on to the thing, we turn it over in our thoughts, and our thoughts are also colored by the same craving and sense of insufficiency. Proliferating thoughts beset us - thoughts about I, me and mine. So when we grasp, we create anew the sense of self. In fact grasping is identical to creating the sense o self. The sense of self arises through grasping.

The 'I' is constantly defining itself in relation to something that exists: I think, I feel, I hurt, my home, my partner and so on."

Emptiness: a practical guide for meditators